Well the fateful day arrived a few weeks ago - Number 2 has grown out of his sling. No longer will I be able to stuff him, silent and unmoving, arms akimbo like some tiny Michelin Man, into the sling strapped to my chest and set off on a roll through my local village. The reason is simple - he is now so big that he can stand on my thighs and completely obscure my vision. He further increases the discomfort by gleefully throwing his head back and cracking me on the bridge of my nose with his rock-like head! So - goodbye Baby Bjorn!
Before any children arrived my wife and I spent some time trying out every conceivable sling. It was obvious to me that the only type that would work for me would be a forward slung carrier type. The backpack designs would be too dangerous - the risk of tipping the wheelchair over backwards is just too great. The side-sling designs (which my wife prefers) are impractical as I need full freedom of movement with both arms. Simply sitting the child on my lap is not safe until they learn to hold on - something that Number 2 still has not quite grasped at 16 months. Of the chest carriers that I tried, the best was by far and away the Baby Bjorn. It was comfortable to wear, easy to put on, and both children loved being in it. The only complaint is that it can get very uncomfortable in hot weather - but they introduced a lighter material version after ours was bought.
When the children were small it worked very well. As they grew, the problems grew. Once their feet could reach my legs, while in the sling, they would push against them, almost over-balancing me on occasion. However, it is such a convenient way of carrying the children that I lived with this.
Number 2 is walking now...staggering around like a drunken sailor is more accurate. So the sling has been hung up for the last time. Unless a number three is Bjorn again...
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Whale watching in Provincetown, MA
I took Number 1 on a whale watching trip along with two of my cousins and my sister-in-law. It was a huge success, although Number 1 was so over-stimulated by the end of the day that we had a spectacular melt-down at home.
We went with Dolphin Fleet of Provincetown. Some of their boats are more suitable for wheelchair than others, so you have to call in advance to see when they better ones are sailing. We went on Dolphin VIII. This was okay for a light manual chair like mine, but a heavy, or a wide, or an electric chair would have no hope of getting on-board. The staff were enthusiastic and eager to help. Getting on-board involved going down a long steep ramp (angle depends on the tide), hopping a large step and then up a short ramp onto the boat itself. The outdoor areas on the lower deck were fully accessible, although so narrow that my chair could barely fit at the narrowest point (my chair is 68.5cm wide). To get inside involved negotiating a tall (8", 18cm) thin lip typical on boats. It would be possible with assistance from the staff, but not easy. The toilets had wide doors and were large enough for my chair, but had the same lip to negotiate. I did not need to use them on this trip.
It would be possible to go alone with a child, but Number 1 had a lot more fun because her aunt was able to take her up stairs for a better view. She will be three next month (the child, not the aunt!) and I was worried that she would be bored but in the event she loved it and had a permanant grin plastered to her face.
This particular ride was quite rough and as a T4 with limited balance, I had to hang on to a rail at all times, but none of our party were sick and we got to see some whales.
Check it out, do your homework, and it might work out for you too.
We went with Dolphin Fleet of Provincetown. Some of their boats are more suitable for wheelchair than others, so you have to call in advance to see when they better ones are sailing. We went on Dolphin VIII. This was okay for a light manual chair like mine, but a heavy, or a wide, or an electric chair would have no hope of getting on-board. The staff were enthusiastic and eager to help. Getting on-board involved going down a long steep ramp (angle depends on the tide), hopping a large step and then up a short ramp onto the boat itself. The outdoor areas on the lower deck were fully accessible, although so narrow that my chair could barely fit at the narrowest point (my chair is 68.5cm wide). To get inside involved negotiating a tall (8", 18cm) thin lip typical on boats. It would be possible with assistance from the staff, but not easy. The toilets had wide doors and were large enough for my chair, but had the same lip to negotiate. I did not need to use them on this trip.
It would be possible to go alone with a child, but Number 1 had a lot more fun because her aunt was able to take her up stairs for a better view. She will be three next month (the child, not the aunt!) and I was worried that she would be bored but in the event she loved it and had a permanant grin plastered to her face.
This particular ride was quite rough and as a T4 with limited balance, I had to hang on to a rail at all times, but none of our party were sick and we got to see some whales.
Check it out, do your homework, and it might work out for you too.
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Off on vacation...
Although I travel a lot for work, travelling with the kids is not something I do very often. We have been a bit home bound since number 2 arrived. But this being July, and the weather being good, we loaded up the trusty Ford Taurus Station-wagon and headed North to Cape Cod, a drive of more than 500 miles (800km) and two days.
My wife has to take on most of the burden when we travel, as I have moaned about before. She packs for the kids, herself and the journey. I pack my stuff. I help Number 1 into the car (it is very difficult for me to lift Number 2 into his car seat) and strap her in then get in myself. My wife is left trying to fit three suitcases, a stroller, a wheelchair and the various bits and pieces of travel, into the car in 100F (38C) heat - an activity guaranteed to make her grumpy.
Driving long distances in the USA is not generally a big issue for the wheelchair user. Most rest-stops and restaurants have accessible toilets. Indeed, US residents have really no idea how good they have it until they travel in Ireland, England or one of the less civilized European countries like Italy. Indeed, the only problem with long distance driving is that thousands of other drivers do it too - on my roads, clogging them up and extending my journey hours.
We don't try and take the 500miles in one chunk - that would be unfair on the children, and my legs would seize. So we split the journey and over-night along the way. My aim is to drive 5-6hours in a day, then rest. After 6 hours in the car my rear end (which normally has no sensation) is tingling with ghost pins and needles.
But we made it. And I am looking forward to a week of 100% family time, with Number 2 clinging on to my lap and Number 2 running on the beach - alas, inaccessible to me.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
Travel Notes: Hilton Hotel, LAX, Los Angeles, CA
Hilton Hotel, LAX, Ca.
Entrance is up a hill from the street, but level access. Check in was fast and friendly. No options offered on room (in fact they said they had only one handicapped accessible room available. As it turned out it had direct access to the pool so I wasn't complaining!).
All areas of the hotel are accessible. The bar is up 4 or 5 steps, and the wheelchair access is retrofitted. there is a very steep ramp (about 1:6) which I (foolishly) tried to wheel up. Almost impossible for a manual self-propelled chair. However, there is also a chair lift that the staff can operate if the ramp proves impossible. Once at the bar level, there are further ADA compliant ramps to the various levels of the bar.
One very pleasant side effect of the split levels in the bar is that at one end, the bar is a comfortable height to sit at with a wheelchair. So it is one of the few bars I have ever been at where I could actually belly up to the bar and have a beer! The food is pretty good too.
Room was extra large, King bed, plenty of room to wheel around it. Bed about 2" (5cm) above wheelchair cushion height and I found it tricky to transfer in on and off. Good size work desk, electric socket in the lamp and the desk within easy reach. WiFi Ethernet. The clothes closet was in an awkward to reach place, and the clothes hangers were too high and out of reach. TV controls left by the bed within easy reach.
Accessible tub, wall mounted shower hose. Plenty of grab rails in the right places, but the inner wall of the tub was almost flush with the bathroom wall making it difficult to use the tub itself as a leaning place. Wall mounted sink with legroom underneath.
Entrance is up a hill from the street, but level access. Check in was fast and friendly. No options offered on room (in fact they said they had only one handicapped accessible room available. As it turned out it had direct access to the pool so I wasn't complaining!).
All areas of the hotel are accessible. The bar is up 4 or 5 steps, and the wheelchair access is retrofitted. there is a very steep ramp (about 1:6) which I (foolishly) tried to wheel up. Almost impossible for a manual self-propelled chair. However, there is also a chair lift that the staff can operate if the ramp proves impossible. Once at the bar level, there are further ADA compliant ramps to the various levels of the bar.
One very pleasant side effect of the split levels in the bar is that at one end, the bar is a comfortable height to sit at with a wheelchair. So it is one of the few bars I have ever been at where I could actually belly up to the bar and have a beer! The food is pretty good too.
Room was extra large, King bed, plenty of room to wheel around it. Bed about 2" (5cm) above wheelchair cushion height and I found it tricky to transfer in on and off. Good size work desk, electric socket in the lamp and the desk within easy reach. WiFi Ethernet. The clothes closet was in an awkward to reach place, and the clothes hangers were too high and out of reach. TV controls left by the bed within easy reach.
Accessible tub, wall mounted shower hose. Plenty of grab rails in the right places, but the inner wall of the tub was almost flush with the bathroom wall making it difficult to use the tub itself as a leaning place. Wall mounted sink with legroom underneath.
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